Being responsible and accountable is good....going against yourself and doing more than your responsibilities consistently is not. Feeling resentment for imbalance when you're overfunctioning and wanting to quit and trying to determine if this is when you should just "bootstrap up" and push through even though 'you're so done' is bad and a definite no. Pushing through is wrong for us when what we're pushing through is wrong for us! You bootstrap and push through when you've fallen into a poor me rut and need to persevere into a can do (your legitimate responsibilities only) frame of mind. You stop and consider what's going on if what you're pushing through is a situation, relationship, work load, etc., that is codependently working on you doing more than normal, more than you should, functioning beyond your legitimate responsibilities.
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